What Executive Function Challenges Look Like in College—and How to Plan Now

In high school, students often have a built-in support system: teachers reminding them about deadlines, parents helping manage schedules, counselors checking grades.

But once your teen steps onto a college campus, everything changes.

Executive functioning skills—the mental processes that manage planning, organization, time management, and self-regulation—are critical for college success.
And students who struggle with executive function, including those with ADHD, learning differences, or slower processing speeds, can face real challenges when those outside supports fall away.

The good news? With planning, practice, and the right college environment, these challenges can be managed—and your teen can thrive.

What Are Executive Function Challenges?

Executive function refers to a set of mental skills that include:

  • Organizing tasks and materials

  • Managing time and meeting deadlines

  • Prioritizing assignments

  • Starting and finishing projects

  • Controlling impulses and emotions

  • Adapting to new situations or changing plans

When students struggle with executive functioning, college can feel overwhelming quickly—not because they aren’t capable, but because they don't yet have the systems and skills in place to manage independence.

What Executive Function Challenges Look Like in College

Here’s what executive functioning difficulties often look like once students are on campus:

1. Missed Deadlines and Late Assignments
Without frequent reminders from teachers, it’s easy for students to lose track of due dates or misunderstand how much time a project will require.

2. Overwhelmed by Long-Term Assignments
Large projects like research papers or lab reports require breaking tasks into smaller steps over time—something that can be hard for students who struggle with planning and pacing.

3. Difficulty Balancing Classes, Homework, and Life
Time management becomes critical in college. Students must juggle coursework, studying, laundry, meals, exercise, and social activities—all without a set schedule.

4. Trouble Getting Started on Work
Procrastination is often rooted in executive function struggles. Students may know what they need to do but feel mentally “stuck” when it’s time to begin.

5. Missed Appointments or Important Communications
In college, students are expected to schedule meetings with professors, advisors, and tutors on their own. Those with executive functioning challenges may forget to schedule—or may miss meetings entirely.

6. Disorganization Across Multiple Areas
Dorm rooms, backpacks, laptops, and class notes can quickly become chaotic, making it harder to study effectively or even find what’s needed for an assignment.

7. Emotional Dysregulation and Anxiety
When tasks feel overwhelming and unmanageable, it often triggers anxiety, avoidance, and frustration, compounding academic difficulties.

How to Plan Now: Building Executive Function Skills Before College

Supporting executive function isn’t about forcing your teen to be "perfectly organized." It’s about building realistic systems, habits, and confidence.

Here’s how you can help now:

1. Start with a Master Calendar
Teach your teen to keep one central calendar for all assignments, exams, social plans, and responsibilities. Google Calendar, Notion, or even a paper planner work—consistency is key.

2. Practice Backward Planning
Help them break big projects into smaller tasks with mini-deadlines. Practice this in high school courses now so it becomes second nature.

3. Encourage Daily and Weekly Check-Ins
Schedule a short time each week for your teen to look ahead at upcoming deadlines and plan when they’ll work on each task. Eventually, they’ll do it independently.

4. Build Routines and Habits
Routines reduce the mental energy needed to plan every day. Morning routines, study time routines, even laundry days—all create anchors that simplify life.

5. Strengthen Communication Skills
Practice emailing teachers, setting appointments, and asking questions about assignments. In college, students must communicate directly with professors and advisors.

6. Introduce Self-Advocacy Early
If your teen needs accommodations (like extended time on exams), encourage them to practice requesting these supports themselves now, rather than having you step in.

7. Explore Executive Function Support Services in College Searches
Some colleges offer academic coaching, executive function support centers, and peer mentoring programs. Knowing these resources exist can be a huge comfort—for you and your teen.

Choosing Colleges That Support Executive Function Needs

When visiting or researching colleges, ask specific questions:

  • Are there academic coaches available for organization and time management?

  • How easy is it to access tutoring or study skills workshops?

  • Are professors approachable during office hours?

  • Are disability support services proactive and student-centered?

A college that understands executive function needs—and provides structures to support them—can make a real difference in your teen’s transition and success.

Final Thoughts

Executive function challenges don’t mean your teen isn’t college-ready. It means they need a smart plan, the right tools, and a college that fits their learning style and needs.

Start building these habits now, while the stakes are lower.
By the time move-in day comes around, your teen will feel more confident—and ready to take ownership of their college journey.

🌟 Need help finding a college that supports students with executive function challenges? I work with families to create personalized college strategies that set students up for success—academically and personally.

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